Change is always a refreshing welcome. We all need to find the courage to give ourselves what we need. Not just a haircut, new clothes or some new shoes, but a complete do over. Let go of things that are bad for you, let go of your toxic history, your past made you who you are, you don’t have to continue being defined by it.Erase negativity including the people that it comes from, and start living a life that you’ll be grateful for. It’s hard to move on from things that are familiar, it’s hard to let go of things that are so comforting, but if those things are also things that you know are bad for you, don’t be afraid of change because change doesn’t have to be bad. You’ll only be doing yourself a favor then. Change can be a lot of things, it can be painful, discomforting, life changing, but remember change can also be liberating, beautiful and healing. It can lead to opportunities and help you realize things you never ever dreamed of because you were always too cozy in your comfort zone. Get out of there, do things differently, don’t be afraid to try what you want. It’s scary i know, everything is, but don’t get caught up staying safe, avoiding hurting so much that you begin to accept whatever comes your way because of the sense of comfort you have gotten used to. Leave, it won’t be as bad as it seems. Try new things, take a walk, read something new, eat something new, do something you always feared doing. Stop waking up and hoping for things to be different, for things to change for the better, you have to make it happen. It’s easier said than done I know,but you got to start somewhere. Accept what’s gone, and look forward to what is to come. Not all days are going to be sunny, you’ve got to live through the rainstorm so you can enjoy the sunny days. Live your fears and your ambitions, your nightmares and your fantasies, you might not see it now, but it is all going to be worth it.You are the choices you make, not everything is in your control but how you deal with it, is. You are the only one in control, you are the could haves and should haves. Change can be scary, to know that the power to turn your life around lies within you, it’s scary. There will be days you want to go back and it’s okay to take those days off, as long as you don’t give in! You’ve got one life, you don’t have to spend it feeling suffocated because the power to live how you want is in your hands. Hope will always be our guiding light but what you need is faith in yourself and the courage to start now!!